- How bad do you want it?
- What and what would you do to get it?
- Can your principles be bent for some conditions?
In line with some of the unwritten laws of life like, what works for a Ben might not work for Ken, while the rule is making emphasis on diversification and differences the element of control is and remains tantamount,more than words
It should be seen as a guide towards the path of self control, control here covers our acts, intra and inter speech, what we dish out and that which we consume.
The role of control cannot overflooged as it is key to personal development, societal well being and general progression.
Imagine a thief having control over his desires or a an oppressor knowing just when to stop, the world would have been a better place of you ask me.
Why and when do we employ control;
- Communication
When talking to people irrespective of Age, race or background, while it’s normal to seek emotional or casual acceptance, you will always realize it’s wrong to have said too Much, that’s is if you ever realize, in essence somethings are better left unsaid. - Expectation
When we seek for something be it physical or otherwise, for the fact that a person has it in abundance doesn’t make it yours and you are at Liberty to get all of it, if the person before you had done some you won’t be seeing it. - Giving
It’s vital to note that as our face are different so are our thought processes, while Jim may appreciate and make good use of the $5 borrowed, Dave might believe it is always available and will always get some when he squanders it, situations like this, control permits you know how genuine one is, how to give, what weight or amount to give that per adventure if its not refunded doesn’t affect your financial life and doesn’t punch a hole in your long built friendship.
Will stop here for now, make your points known via the comments and suggest a topic to talk on next
