A Nigerian clergyman, Prophet Apata Enoch, has triggered widespread reactions online after making comments about physical appearance and marriage during his wife’s 50th birthday celebration.While marking the milestone, the pastor shared photos of his wife and openly praised her beauty. In the same post, he urged his followers, especially young people preparing for marriage, not to settle for a partner they find unattractive.
He argued that attraction plays an important role in sustaining a home, and that couples should be proud to present each other to the world. According to him, marriage is already challenging enough without adding regret over physical appearance.The statement quickly drew mixed responses on social media.
Some people agreed, saying attraction and compatibility matter in marriage. Others criticized the remarks as shallow and insensitive, arguing that character, faith, and values should outweigh looks.The birthday celebration itself was filled with tributes and appreciation for his wife. But it was the pastor’s marriage advice that dominated conversations, reigniting debate about what really should matter most when choosing a life partner.
